The Words of the Sedehi Family

Don't Laugh at Your Wife!

Shahram Sedehi
May 6, 2012

What is the difference of laughing with your wife, versus at her? Or how about making her laugh!

Why women always like a man that makes them smile, but never laughs at them?

Woman is like a diamond that sinks to the bottom of the ocean of concerns of this life. And man is supposed to be the one that fishes her out of that ocean of worries and brings her to the boat of faith and love!

This is not about making us men feel ashamed, as we look back at all those times, we could not "save" her. But, it is about NOW. Let's ask each other, can we support each other and promise we wont laugh at her anymore, but with her.

Many times I did make my wife laugh, but at the expense of disrespecting her. I just could not bear the fact she was "sinking"; so I just had to distract both of us of the fact. I just did not have the heart to sink with her to the deepest ocean of her broken heart as a little girl whom was not really loved.

A woman really needs a "diver", more than a fisherman, as her rescuer; the man who risks everything for her, even going down to depth of Hell.

We men just can not believe, we could possibly survive even for a moment under those dark waters of Eve's past, so we laugh at her, not wanting to show our "disapproval" of her past!

To love a woman is like sinking to the bottom of a lotus flower pond. First, the man must experience his feet being tied to all the roots of the lotus seed at the muddy floor of the pond. Yes, losing the "freedom" of flying above waters!

And yet, if we men are patient enough, one day, that lotus flower, the woman, blossoms and surfaces to the top of water, whirling around the dance stage of life...and us men feeling the ecstasy of being her child on her Mary-Go- Around... 

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