Telling Your Dislikes about Me Can Save Us!

Shahram Sedehi
July 13, 2012

How often has anyone asked you sincerely, what you dislike in them? It usually happens when the relationship has hit rock bottom and one or both of you are desperate to save it.

Today, I did ask a friend, what they disliked about me, since the relationship was getting stuck! As I heard the dislikes, not only I did not get defensive or hurt, but I felt so much closer and connected to that person.

So,, once in a while, ask people what they don't like about you. This leaves the door open between you two, to create real depth and connection.