The Words of the Sedehi Family
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The Words of the Sedehi Family |
I have been pondering on a new terminology called "extreme privacy" I heard in Rev. Oh's [Taek Yong Oh] lectures about state of fallen mind.
What would it take for something to be extremely private? Where do you draw the line? Privacy has a purpose, and that is to give something creative, enough time to mature before it is ready for public eye!
Once that period is over, hiding something is going against the very purpose of privacy. Absolute sex act is the most creative thing the union of man and woman can produce and it is the light that Jesus called us not hide under a bush!
So, I have been wondering why only sister Hermine and brother Jamal are the only ones talking about their Absolute Sex life with their spouse?
Before you answer, let me guess, "You feel judged, you are in pain" regarding this issue? Or maybe you think your Absolute sex life is just not creative and exciting and or deep enough to be talked about... Or maybe you are simply not practicing Absolute Sex act, because your concept of it is, "sexual morality": being abstinent or simply not having sex outside of your Blessed marriage... Or perhaps you, like myself, is NOT living in the same residence as your spouse for whatever reason!
A whole 2nd Generation and beyond culture is resting on what example we set... isn't that enough reason to make any effort at all?
I will start first, by letting you all know that I am in pain and regret for my past failures in Absolute sex act with my wife!
However, recently, a small voice has been telling me to share the pain, "that pain does not belong to you, it is entirely public"! The pain of being separated from my spouse is not private, because the joy of being together with her would not be either!
So, now it is your turn... (just kidding!)