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The True Couple and a Happy Family (Vol. 2)
Dae Mo Nim
April 18, 2007
A Life of Give and Take Action with God
What would you do if we were put in an environment where we had to go to the spirit world? Do you think your descendants and husband or wife would respect you if you went to the spirit world today? You must think once again, if you are worthy of such respect. Won't you feel embarrassed when you are asked about your life on earth by God when you meet Him in heaven?
You must understand that God and Satan are constantly looking at your lifestyles. You must understand that God is always in tears whenever you do something wrong and Satan is in joy and smiling at you. If we are able to achieve a give and take action with God, He will return everlasting blessings. However, you must understand that there is no salvation if we become partners with Satan.
When there is a difficult situation in the family, you mustn't carry a grudge against the other person. Rather having a grudge against the other person but think, 'I must reflect on how I am living at the moment. If I have a give and take action with God He will probably give blessings to this family.' It's wrong to think; it's my husbands fault, my child's fault, and or someone else's fault. Do you understand?
A Good Lifestyle
Don't we all have to go to heaven? Then is our posture that of a heavenly person? How is it? No it's not that of a heavenly person. If we went to the spirit world today, we will not be able to enter heaven. To go to heaven we must become heavenly people.
You are able to enter heaven. As I did the Chung Pyung Works, I really had the mindset to make it possible for all members to go to heaven. Therefore, now it's possible for you to go to heaven.
However, for that to be established you also must put much effort in. You must change your habits to good ones. You must maintain the good habits that you gained through the 40-day workshop.
Everything can be achieved if you put in enough effort. If I had been lazy I wouldn't have accomplished any of the Chung Pyung Works. It wouldn't have been achieved if I just sat down there believing in God's words that He would do it. To make it possible for God to establish it, I continuously offered myself.
Do you wake up early in the morning? Do the wives put make up on before the husbands wake up? When your husband goes outside there are many beautiful women. Isn't that true? There are wives who doesn't even wash up before the husband wakes up, or say 'Have a great day' when he leaves for work but say, 'Why did you wake me up? I still want to sleep.' That is a wrong thing to do.
You must be able to show love by waking up early in the morning, make breakfast for your husband and become a wife who your husband would think about during the day.
Do you clean your house properly? You must clean your room, kitchen and bathrooms. Even if you go out during the day, you must return home before your child or husband does.
There are wives who sleep in late, eat lunch and go out for rest of the day and return back home way after her child and husband. That's a wrong thing to do.
A Couple that Gives Love
A wife should become a wife that attends the husband like; an older sister, a mother, sometimes like a friend, and sometimes become a charming younger sister. Have you ever charmed your husband? I gave sex education to the wives who attended the 21-day Registration Workshop. The role for a wife in the family is really great.
It's same for the husband. You must become husbands that can attend your wives; like a father, an older brother, a friend, and sometimes become a husband like a younger brother. You must be able to make the family feel safe whenever they return back home. You must become husbands that can provide security at home.
You mustn't become husbands who won't even say; 'Goodbye' to your wives before you leave the house in the morning. You mustn't become husbands that wouldn't even hold your wives hands before leaving the house. Don't become husbands expecting to just receive love but become husbands that will give love.
I met one couple some time ago. The husband and wife had a fight and never reconciled until the evening. They faced away from each other when they slept at night, and sometime after it became unbearable for them to sleep in the same room so they decided to sleep in separate rooms. How long do you think they have lived in separate rooms? 20 years. You mustn't be like that.
The husband who is the subject is the subject of love. A wife can live happily for rest of the day with one word of love from the husband in the morning. If the husband scolded the wife before he leaves for work, where do you think the wife will throw her frustration? It is said that they will throw it at their child.
In the morning, if the husband expresses love towards his wife before he leaves for work, the wife's mood is great for rest of the day. Because they feel great they are able to give love to their child and are able to develop their daily lives even further. Do you understand? When you become that kind of wife and husband, you are able to achieve a happy family. Is that clear? ("Yes!")
People that create Cheon Il Guk Together
We are able to become happy if we are able to live a beautiful life. Living beautifully, God and Absolute Good Spirits are able to dwell with us.
If there are blessed families around you that haven't done the Ancestor Liberation Ceremony please guide them so they are able to attend the Ancestor Liberation Ceremony. Also, please help those blessed wives who haven't yet attended the 'Special 40-Day Workshop for Blessed Wives' and '21-Day Registration Workshop for Blessed Wives' to attend quickly as they can.
I wish that you become a person that can create the Cheon Il Guk and together become brothers and sisters of the unification family to live happily. Do you understand? ("Yes!") Can you do this? ("Yes!") Can I believe in you? ("Yes!")
Always be healthy. Always be happy and become sons and daughters who can always receive the love from True Parents.
Chung Pyung Heaven and Earth Training Center will always respect you, love and try to solve any difficult problems that you may have. Please do not forget that Chung Pyung Heaven and Earth Training Center is an educational place for all humanity to enter heaven.
I would like to finish my message by wishing that you would strongly start in your new lives