The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim -- Hoon Mo Nim)
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The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim -- Hoon Mo Nim) |
Note: On July 9, 2005, Dae Mo Nim spoke to the members of the '31st Transition of the Three Ages Four Position Foundation Registration Unification Blessing Ceremony' in the main hall of Cheonseong Wanglim Palace (Heavenly Palace). She said, "After attending the Registration Blessing Ceremony, couples should unite as one and create a true family." She also gave matters that couples should follow after receiving the Registration Blessing Ceremony.
I believe that those members who came here today are fortunate members. We, as human beings living on earth, do not know well about the spirit world, therefore, we cannot fully grasp the concept of Registration. You can say that Registration, is something that you must have to enter heaven.
A blessed family, in other words, is in the child's position, a position that Heavenly Father and True Parents bestowed. It is the position where Heavenly Father and True Parents reside with you together. It's a grateful and amazing blessing.
However, there are blessed families who couldn't straighten before receiving the blessing and consequently lived their previous lifestyle. There are members here today, who have tried their best in order to live beautifully after receiving the blessing but there are members who do not understand the value of the blessing and continuously live their normal life and in some cases, worse than before.
True Parents wished us to reach the original position of the registration, however, we couldn't do so. Therefore, True Parents once again offered an indemnity condition and the True Children in the spirit world also offered indemnity conditions for us.
He then said, "You must also offer a small condition. Blessed wives must attend the 21-day Registration Workshop for Blessed Wives and husbands to attend the Special 8-day Workshops for Worldwide Registered Blessed Husbands, and only if you fulfill such condition can I raise you to the position of registration" and told us to fulfill a small condition and bestowed the Registration Blessing.
That is why our lifestyle from now on is really important. True Parents gave us the Registration Blessing and after it is up to us.
True Parents will not offer indemnity conditions like he has until now, therefore we must have Absolute Faith, Absolute Love and Absolute Obedience and have a lifestyle of being One Heart, One Body and One Mindset with Heavenly Father and True Parents.
The spiritual atmosphere now is different compared to the past. Until now, Satan and evil completely ruled the world, however, through having Ancestor Liberation and Blessing Ceremony we were able to create Absolute Good Spirits, ancestors with God's lineage.
Furthermore, the evil spirits that were in our body have been liberated becoming Absolute Good Spirits and are now helping to remove fallen nature from members. Those evil spirits that are in our body try to make us live a wrongful life through controlling us, however, through the Holy Song Session we are able to remove the evil spirits.
When the Absolute Good Spirits help us, our lifestyle will change dramatically. Not only will the spiritual background change but our mindset will change. Our heart will change.
Until now, due to the tangled connection with ancestors there were times where we had many quarrels between the husband and wife. Most of the blessed families were matched with ancestors who had big problems with each other.
Why did True Parents bless us with people whose ancestors would have difficulties with our own is because he gave us a chance to liberate this grudge through the descendants, while on earth.
True Parents blessed us, "Husbands and wives must unite as one and live their life loving one another". It didn't matter how much our ancestors hated each other, he gave a chance for us to liberate it on earth through us.
However, since we were unable to live according to the principle, like our ancestors, we as couples fought each other. That is the problem we face today.
Now, your ancestors are being liberated and created into Absolute Good Ancestors. These Absolute Good Ancestors are helping so that the couple on earth can love each other and live their life.
We entered an era where if we had the thought, 'Must love my spouse', it'd be possible for us to live a happy and good life.
From now on, couples are able to live happily right? You missed each other because you were apart from one another for 21 days. You might have hated your spouse while you lived with each other but when you live away from them, haven't you been thinking about your spouse?
Even if you lived for a hundred years, there is a limit to live with your spouse on earth, but you will live together forever with your spouse in the spirit world. However, couples who fought and hated each other and lived their life on earth would live similarly in the spirit world.
Therefore, to live happily in the spirit world, you should have mutual understanding, the husband love the wife and wife must return beauty and love her husband. Therefore, each of you should live a life where you could think, 'She is the only person for my wife' and 'He is the only person to be my husband'.
True Parents matched us and blessed us with a person, 'A person who will match when lived according to the principle'. That is why from now on, both of you must have a lifestyle of mutual understanding and start loving each other.
The husband should become a father like husband for the wife. You must be a good son to your wife. Wives that have two sons will often say that, 'I have three sons at home'. This is because; the husband is like a son.
The husband should become an affectionate father to his wife, and at times become a husband who is like an older and younger brother to his wife. You cannot emphasize one's power saying that, 'I am a man' and 'I am the husband'.
The wife is the same. When the wife becomes a wife, a mother, an older and younger sister to her husband, a family can have a good give and take action.
You must change because you received the Registration Blessing. The husband should have a heart of wanting to give much love to his wife, and the wife should have the heart of 'I must return beauty to him'.
Wives who received the Registration Blessing must from now on take care of themselves and when your husband returns from work, you should wear makeup, take care of you hair and must have thoughts like, 'I must become a wife that my husband would like'.
Also you must change your internal heart so that you can be a wife, a mother, an older sister, a friend and a younger sister to your husband. You must become the resting place for your husband after he worked outside.
The husbands are the same as well. You must serve your wives who are taking care of the children at home.
If someone told the husband to prepare food, do laundry and raise a child for a month, that husband would runaway. That is why, after your day's work and you return home, you should say, 'Well done' to your wife and at the same time give love like a father, older brother, a friend and a younger brother to your wife.
Raise your hands if you had gone to a café with your spouse after receiving the blessing? You should walk in parks, drink coffee at cafés and have conversations and take care of each other's wrongful content through love. Do you understand? If you don't do so, then love will not emerge and will be prevented from being established.
That is why you should create such family from now on. You must build a family that Satan cannot touch, a family that won't fall even in an evil environment, and a beautiful family that can serve Heavenly Father and True Parents.
To create such family, you mustn't have fallen nature. Jealousy, rage, hatred, deceitfulness, thoughts of 'myself' and selfishness, and complaints shouldn't be in your hearts. You also mustn't fight against each other.
Furthermore, to create a true family, you mustn't drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, and do drugs. Alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs affect the personality and create illness. It also leads to adultery. That is why; you mustn't drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, and do drugs.
If you went to the spirit world, heaven is beautiful and has a nice scent, on the other hand, hell smells really bad. The spiritual body of a person who drinks alcohol has a similar scent like in that of hell. Those people who smoke and drink don't realize this fact, however, that smell is really bad.
If you were drinking, and suddenly you passed away into the spirit world, even though you did many good things on earth, you are unable to enter heaven due to your smell and drunkenness.
If you drink alcohol, to get rid of it from your body it takes from a year and a half to two years. Alcoholics will take around five years.
Until now, it was time of evil development; therefore, if you drank alcohol you also developed and improved. However, from now on, the world of goodness will be created, therefore, if you have the thought of, 'I must do business through drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes', you will be ruined.
When you go to the spirit world, you will realize how bad it is if you drank alcohol, smoked cigarettes and did drugs. That is why; you mustn't drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes and do drugs. Life without alcohol is much better for you to accomplish things.
To create a true family you mustn't commit the sin of adultery.
You mustn't also see the body of a woman other than your loving wife and a body of a man other than your loving husband with an illicit thought. You also mustn't touch it illicitly. You also mustn't share your bed with other women and other men!
You will eventually go to the spirit world that is why I am teaching you in details. There is heaven and there is hell in the spirit world but the illicit spiritual beings are at a much lower place than hell. Therefore, do not commit a sin of adultery!
You then mustn't embezzle public money. The 11th article is also public money. That is why we must follow the life of the 11 articles.
Whenever you receive 100,000 won and offer 10,000 won for offering you'd be thinking, 'With this money I can do other things but why do I have to offer?' If you offered 10,000 won then much more blessings shall return to your family.
Then, from today you must be careful of your language.
Husbands who are here wouldn't say bad things to their loving wives would you? You wouldn't just say the things from your mind, right? You mustn't say bad things to each other. Couples mustn't say bad things and say whatever they want to say and fight. You must respect each other and live for the sake of the other.
You also must welcome True Parents to your family. You must live in service and attend True Parents so that True Parents' shimjung, love, and blessing would fill the air of the family. From now on, you must develop the life of living in service and attending True Parents with sincerity.
Always clean the area where you have True Parents' photograph, bow in the morning and say, 'good morning', and say 'good night' and bow before you sleep at night. A life of bowing must be practiced within the family.
You also must live a life of witnessing, at least three hours per day. Through the life of witnessing, be proud of God and True Parents, the Divine Principle, your achievements, the era of heavenly fortune, and also become a member who can be proud of one's family.
Also, you mustn't forget to go to church. Please attend your pastors, your elder blessed couples, and become a couple who can love their younger couples and 2nd generations. If you can become such family then you are a registered family. Do you understand?
I taught you all the secrets to become happy. But among those things, the most important things is for the couple to love each other centering on Absolute Faith and live for the sake of the other.
When couples become One Heart, One Body and One Mindset their health can be maintained and they can improve financially. Can you do this? ("Yes!")
I hope you will always be healthy… I will finish my speech by hoping that everyone would become precious families that can live in service and attend God and True Parents.