The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim - Hoon Mo Nim) from 2013

Let's prepare to become parents

Dae Mo Nim
August 10-11, 2013
2013 World Blessed Families Children Coming of Age Ceremony


Dae Mo Nim -- August 11, 2013

From 7. 4 - 5 by the heavenly calendar, 1st year of Cheon Il Guk (solar: August 10-11) the '2013 World Blessed Families Children Coming of Age Ceremony' was held to prepare the children to prepare themselves to meet with a true partner and realize to be leaders of leading the Will of heavenly parent at Chung Pyung Heaven and Earth Training Center. On 7.5 by the heavenly calendar (solar: August 11) Dae Mo Nim emphasized the importance of preparing for the blessing and talked to the 2nd and 3rd generations the following words at the main hall of Cheonseong Wanglim Palace (Heavenly Palace). (Edited: Department of Education and Planning)

Annyeonghaseyo. ('Annyeonghaseyo!') How was last night's 'World Seonghwa Cultural Festival'? ('Good!') I was there too and it was an amazing festival. I feel that you had a great time after seeing you last night.

Participating in the 'World Blessed Families Children Coming of Age Ceremony' means that you are becoming adults. It is a time and precious day for you to be recognized as an adult. From several years ago True Father has been saying, "We have to hold a Coming-of-Age Ceremony for all the 2nd and 3rd generations. They must realize that they have become adults and be careful of what they do in their everyday life. You have to prepare a time and day for the children to report to heavenly parent that they have become adults." This marks the 3rd Coming of Age Ceremony. After holding the Coming of Age Ceremony I can see a clear difference in the members from before and after attending the ceremony. What I felt was, 'it would have been great if I had prepared this Coming of Age Ceremony at an earlier time'.

To Have a Proper Adolescence

Before the children went through their adolescence in their junior years but recently students go through it when they are in primary school. For them to go through a healthy adolescence they should have a good relationship with their family and the family should have a good life of faith.

Generally, once they hit adolescence, the children will try and look for something in the society. Men look for girlfriends and women look for boyfriends. Their state of mind is to deviate from their current environment.

However, when the 2nd and 3rd generations hit adolescence they should try and fix their problem at their church and family. They have to seek the answer to the question, 'How am I going to have a healthy adolescence?' at their church and home.

When they become junior and high school students their identity must be established. At that kind of time the parents should explain to their children why they are 2nd and 3rd generations.

New Life Which Was Waited Tremendously By Heavenly Parent

Heavenly parent said that 'The 2nd and 3rd generations are the life that I have waited for a long time'. Heavenly parent continued the providence of restoration until now. True Parents of Heaven, Earth and Humankind came to this earth and offered sincere devotion so that Satan and evil could not intervene and then blessed the insufficient 1st generation and in that process gave birth to children without the original sin. You are the children which heavenly parent had searched for.

That is why heavenly parent said that 'you are the flower of all flowers'. If you are the flower of all flowers then don't you have to be really beautiful? If you are the flower of all flowers then you must be beautiful. He also said, 'You are the jewelry of all jewelries.' If you are the jewelry of all jewelries then you must be beautiful. Then he said 'You are the love of all loves. If you are the love of all loves then you should be the true love of the love of all loves and if you are the flower of all flowers then you must become a beautiful flower. Much beautiful than any other flower and jewelry.'

When I went to the spirit world after starting the Chung Pyung Works, heavenly parent said, 'You must rightfully raise the 2nd and 3rd generations. You must rightfully educate them. They are the flower of all flowers, jewelry of all jewelries and the love of all loves'. That is the Shim Jeong of heavenly parent and True Parents. If that is the case then we must start thinking, 'Are we actually becoming the flower of all flowers, jewelry of all jewelries, and love of all loves?'

Just because the general children are drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes, having illicit relationships and living with fallen nature doesn't mean, 'I can do that, too'.

There is a will by heavenly parent who wants to restore all the children in the world. The 1st generations were restored and the 2nd generations were born. Then from them 3rd generations are born. However, you who have been recognized as the flower of all flowers, jewelry of all jewelries and love of all loves go out to the society and unite with them, how do you think heavenly parent would think?

In your daily life of 24 hours you cannot think, 'I am living by myself.' All the people connected to you are watching over you and spiritually, heavenly parent and True Parents and the absolute good spirits are watching over you. You have to understand the amazing love of heavenly parent and True Parents who wishes you to become the beautiful flower, the flower of all flowers.

Preparation to Become a Parent

When you grow a little bit more and receive the blessing and then give birth to children you are able to understand the heart of heavenly parent. What was the Shim Jeong heavenly parent have when the children didn't do what the parent wanted them to do. You can understand this after you give birth to children.

We have to be in a state of a flower before we give birth to a child in order to have such child. You have to grow well until you receive the blessing. Please grow well in along the principle and receive the blessing.

In a very short time you will also become parents. You are not a wild child anymore but a certified adult by heavenly parent and True Parents of Heaven, Earth and Humankind.

That is why you must live like adults. You must make a strong determination in front of heaven and your parents that you will fulfill the path of a filial son and daughter. You must become members who will live their lives with a mindset, 'I will become a 2nd and 3rd generation who will properly build a good family'.

You must be careful of the words that you use, actions that you may take and your appearance. From now, you should have a attitude of, 'I will grow as the child of heavenly parent and True Parents'. You must create so that the general children can feel that your life is beautiful and come and visit you. You must create so that they can visit you on the basis that your lifestyle can be trusted.

Also, you are still students so you should study real hard at schools. The humanity must be restored as soon as possible. For that, you should choose a course that meets you and study hard in your areas or working for God's will and no matter where you go if you have a determination that you will become the central bodies for the providence then you should do your best. When I asked heavenly parent, 'How smart are the 2nd and 3rd generations?' and He replied, 'They can be in the top 5. That's how much smart they could also be.'

Becoming a Filial Son and Daughter In Front of Your Parents

If you are going to live your life as adults certified by heavenly parent and True Parents then you have to understand that you can become families that can move heavenly fortune. You have to understand that you will become members who can move heavenly fortune.

From now you must become sons and daughters of filial piety in front of your parents who gave birth to you. You have to go to your parents and say, 'Thank you very much. I am truly grateful. Thank you very much for giving birth to me as a child without the original sin'. You have to serve your parents with respect and love them.

You cannot have fallen nature. You cannot have suspicion, jealousy, rage, hatred, falseness, greed, mind of 'me', arrogance and complaints. When you are one with your family with love then you are the flower of all flowers, jewelry of all jewelries and love of all loves.

Protecting the Absolute Marital Fidelity

You cannot have any problems with the opposite gender. Men mustn't go out with women before they receive the blessing. Women mustn't go out with men before they receive the blessing. You have to always be careful of how you appear. You cannot go to the opposite sex and take off your clothes.

You have to always appear decent. You cannot dye your hair. That is what Satan most likes about. You cannot dye your hair but be beautiful and make it short. I wish you to become children who can proudly say, 'I am the 2nd and 3rd generation which heavenly parent certifies'.

I saw some 2nd and 3rd generations doing their best in last night's 'World Cultural Festival'. I am thinking to have this every year. I will have this kind of time so that the 2nd and 3rd generation of the world could come here and show their talent.

You must have a heart of gratitude at this kind of time when True Parents loves us. You must always have a mindset of 'I am so grateful'. If you are able to live your life with gratitude then there are no obstacles that you cannot overcome. Please understand this and become members who will be grateful.

I am so happy that you are able to participate in this year's Coming of Age Ceremony. If there are 2nd and 3rd generation around you that hasn't attended the Coming of Age Ceremony then please tell them to attend next year. Always be well and in front of your parent who gave birth to you and heavenly parents, please become precious 2nd and 3rd generations who will always fulfill their filial piety as sons and daughters. Gamsahamnida. 

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