My adoptive son is 20 years old now. We have raised him into a great young man that everyone respects and is a son to by proud of by contemporary worldly standards, but at the moment it stops there. He has been given the blessing of American citizenship and the unlimited opportunity for getting it all materially. He loves America dearly. However, the last couple of years have been a heart wrenching. Although I have given nearly the same amount of love to him as the other children and taught deeply DP and internal guidance beyond a 40 day workshop my adoptive son is walking a path separate from our movement. In spite of our having him from 8 hours old, I notice characteristics of his mother in him that need restoration. His knowing he wasn't a "blessed child" has created complicated self esteem needs. Although we explained he would become just like mom and dad by being reborn through choosing TP and receiving the blessing; this is currently not his path. Therefore I suggest a few consideration for those thinking to adopt outside blessed children.

1) Why are you adopting? Is it for you own personal parenting experience? Is it to grow the love between your couple? Would another means provide you with the desired experience?

2) Are you ready to face the possible self-esteem problem that your baby will face in their teen years?

3) Do you realize that your adoptive child is not of your lineage automatically, spiritually? That possibly if your child chooses to be reborn through our TPs into your lineage they, could become part of your spiritual lineage.

4) Until they are 21 you are legally responsibly for most of what they do and that includes if they have a car accident at 20 years old, even if they are not living at home, you could be sue for $1,000,000 and lose your house.

5) Many people who adopt do extensive research into the background of the baby's parents and grandparents to have some kind of an understanding of what they are going to face: health diseases, psychological weaknesses, alcoholism, drugs, sexual addiction, etc. You might find all of your time consumed with unexpected problems that prevent your from birthing spiritual children and raising them up.

I am not trying to discourage, but to speak frankly of the challenges. Raising our adoptive son has been a fantastic experience and we have faith in the long run he will walk the more direct restorational road of our TPs, but for now he himself admits he will have to learn many things the hard way. To be frank there is a great difference between our blessed children and our adoptive son. The blessed are much freer or have less spirits dominating them to begin with.

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