Why Absolute Sex IS the root of True Love!

Jamal D. Johnson
February 19, 2013

For Love to be expressed it requires a medium, a means by which to be conveyed from one spiritual being to another. Without the means to express love, all the love in the word is frustrated and stuck. This is the purpose of material, or the material world.

We often take them for granted, but without gifts the idea of "Love" is just an idea, an abstract idea of connection without the proof. This is why God created the world of proof, the world of substance.

Absolute Sex is the root of love NOT because of what the physical act means from Adam to Eve (or from Eve to Adam). Absolute Sex is the root of True Love firstly because of what it means to God. Following the fact that it means something to God, once WE (mature men and women) can perceive what the gift of the Blessing means to Him, then we can see how much He feels for us. We eventually see that God has no higher valued asset than "His ability to Make Man". So, in God's mind, He is entrusting Humans with His "Human Factory", aka. the united sex organs, the most meaningful substance in the entire physical realm.

ALSO by Giving Adam to Eve and Eve to Adam God is giving his own Son away as a gift of love. Therefore Eve must fathom 1) the deep feeling that God has for Adam and 2) the deep feeling that God has for the "Human Factory", penis/vagina union. She must come to see both the way that God sees them before she can feel deep appreciation welling up from within, before she can begin to cherish Absolute Sex as the symbol of greatest love. The reverse is true for Adam. It takes time to see what God is saying through the sex organs, but once we do, we cannot dispute the fact that the Sex Organs are the most meaningful thing.

When we allow God to give the sex organs away in the Blessing, we allow him to express His highest love, and we allow him to be the reason behind the lineage, behind the next generation. When we take the sex organs with an entitlement mentality like during "the Fall", we unwittingly cut ourselves off from knowing God's highest respect for us. Without waiting to witness how God gives the greatest gift we cannot know how much he really likes us and trusts us.

Furthermore, maximum love is expressed through giving a gift of maximum value. So when we wait on the owner to give us the greatest gift (the gift of maximum value), we are then filled with maximum love, and then it becomes easier to love others, even difficult people and tough situations. This becomes one of the ways that Absolute sex becomes the root of other types of love flowing through the four position foundation.

Since lack of love was the emotional engine of the fall, fullness of love (or maximum love) is the engine of renewal.

Historically, blocking this renewal we have had two problems in history, a perception problem and a reception problem. We need both reception and perception of the gift of highest value in order to be filled with the energy of maximum love. We need reception and Perception. If we receive something that we don't know the meaning of, the giver's emotion is not conveyed, the giver's affection remains frustrated. That is the reception without perception problem. Lets look at the other type of problem, perception without reception. If you know the value of something and the owner wont share it with you then your relationship will have doubt in it. Adam and Eve stole the fruit, the "Human Maker" from God. This killed the opportunity of reception. They did not receive the penis and vagina as a gift, as an act of God's Blessing and Bequeathing sex to them. They cannot possibly feel a connection of love with God in that case. All the joy of sex was attributed to satan, the evil motivator, the false parent.

Adam and Eve also did not know the value of the organs that they stole, so even if they were given the organs (which God would not do during confusion and ignorance) they would not perceive the value. It's like receiving a stone that has a large diamond hidden inside. I give you the stone but you don't know what the real gift inside is. Ignorance of what the sex organs mean to God is like the stone of perceptual blindness, or the stone of ignorance. God would not waste the diamond while you think it is a stone. Incidentally, when we receive the blessing below the top of the growth stage this constitutes a reception without perception problem. All of the blessing carried out during the restoration age where crafted in this manner. Father did not start cleaning up the perception problem until he started talking about absolute sex (roughly 1989 and beyond)

We must both perceive and receive the blessing. To do this we need True Parents whose task it is to play the role of the givers and the teacher. One simple way to look at it is this. If you love True Parents, and the most cherished thing they tried to give was the blessing then why would it not be valuable in your eyes. No matter how you look at it, the problem is a reception AND perception problem. Reception comes after waiting on the messiah, and receiving his blessing. Perception happens when we consume Father's teaching of Absolute Sex without satanic debate minimizing or rationalization. We need both reception and perception if love is to be conveyed from one spiritual being to another. And receiving the thing of highest value while fully perceiving its value… This is the start of unstoppable love that carries love energy beyond that moment. This is why Absolute Sex is the root of True Love.

Jamal David Johnson

Director of Education Paterson
Institute for Relationship Intelligence