The Words of the Sedehi Family

Who Should Say Sorry? and When?

Shahram Sedehi
June 24, 2011

The Bad News: This Question, in its "box", Has No Answer! Yes, it has none! The Good News: Yet, If we think "out of the box" about this question, there is an Answer!

The Bad NEWS

Who Should Say Sorry?

The wrong person or,
The person that was wronged to

You may answer, the person that did the wrong thing...

...fair enough!

Yet, Another question pops up!

Who Knows Who Did the Wrong?

You may answer, of course the one that was wronged!

...fair enough!

Yet another question appears:

How, The Person that Was Wronged, Knows He is Right!?

You may answer, well, based on the evidence of damage that was caused to him by the person that did the wrong thing, of course!

So, Who Should Decide Whether the Wronged Person is truly Right?

Usually, it is a third person, namely a judge makes the final decision.

Fair enough...

Then Who Knows the Judge is Right About the Wronged Person and The Wrong Person!?

As You can see, this is a vicious cycle of "WHO KNOWS?!" and it will never end...

So, we have reached a DEAD END with this question!

Let's leave that maze and Yet enter another maze!

When Should We Say Sorry!?

Every time I realize I did wrong to someone else, of course.

..fair enough!

When Do We Realize, When We Did Do Wrong?! When we have done the wrong thing, enough times, so that the negative consequences of my actions become too obvious to ignore! Then "I Learn..!"

.. Not fair enough!..

Oh, "pun" was intended!

When Do We Know It is "Enough" Times, We Have Done Wrong, When, We Should Be Having a Realization About the Wrong?!

OK, Yet We enter another vicious cycle of "When?"...

NOW The Good News:

"Say Sorry to Whom Should Say Sorry, When They Should Say Sorry!"

Practically this means: Every moment of our life, we should be saying sorry, since we are either wrong, or we are being wronged. When We are wrong, then we should say sorry, obviously; however, if we are wronged, then we should say sorry, even then, since: "No One Knows, When We Should Say Sorry!!!" 

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