Treat Her Like a Woman!

Shahram Sedehi
June 6, 2012

Sun Myung Moon -- 2012

It seems there is a small voice in me that dictates what kind of task makes me a man and what makes me more like a woman, which I am supposed to avoid! Why this voice?

Since sexual organs are the root of love, life and lineage, assertion of our sexual identity is the root desire that determines many of our behavior traits. Without its assertion, we can be led to live a promiscuous life with opposite sex, in order to eliminate the possibility of being homosexual (a single sex being like angels) and prove our heterosexuality.

For a girl or a woman, it is most important to be recognized as one, by the way men in her family (father, brother, husband, son) treat her. The key is to encourage femininity in her with action, rather than words, especially the ones that start with "should"!

On our planet, we have two basic traits presently, one that dictates certain sets of value and tasks based on sexual identity, and one that rebels toward any. So, we have either been pushed toward or pulled away from sexual identity, by the will of others! In either case, the root desire for asserting our sexual identity is not satisfied, since, we have not been allowed to discover it for ourselves.