The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim -- Hoon Mo Nim)
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The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim -- Hoon Mo Nim) |
Note: On July 9, 2008, Dae Mo Nim spoke to the members of the 31st Transition of the Three Ages Four Position Foundation Registration Unification Blessing Ceremony’ in the main hall of Cheonseong Wanglim Palace (Heavenly Palace). She said, After attending the Registration Blessing Ceremony, couples should unite as one and create a true family. She also gave guidlance that couples should follow after receiving the Registration Blessing Ceremony.
I believe that those members who came here today are fortunate members. We, as human beings living on earth, do not know well about the spirit world, therefore, we cannot fully grasp the concept of Registration. You can say that Registration, is something that you must have to enter heaven.
A blessed family, in other words, is in the child's position, a position that Heavenly Father and True Parents bestowed. It is the position where Heavenly Father and True Parents reside with you together. It's a grateful and amazing blessing.
However, there are blessed families who couldn’t straighten before receiving the blessing and consequently lived their previous lifestyle. There are members here today, who have tried their best to live beautifully after receiving the blessing but there are members who do not understand the value of the blessing and continuously live their normal life and in some cases, worse than before.
True Parents wished us to reach the original position of the registration, however, we couldn’t do so. Therefore, True Parents once again offered an indemnity condition and the True Children in the spirit world also offered indemnity conditions for us.
He then said, you must also offer a small condition. Blessed wives must attend the 21-day Registration Workshop for Blessed Wives and husbands to attend the Special 8-day Workshops for Worldwide Registered Blessed Husbands, and only if you fulfill such condition can I raise you to the position of registration and told us to fulfill a small condition and bestowed the Registration Blessing.
That is why our lifestyle from now on is really important. True Parents gave us the Registration Blessing and after it is up to us.
True Parents will not offer indemnity conditions like he has until now, therefore we must have Absolute Faith, Absolute Love and Absolute Love and have a lifestyle of being One Heart, One Body and One Mindset with Heavenly Father and True Parents.
The spiritual atmosphere now is different compared to the past. Until now, Satan and evil completely overruled the world, however, through having Ancestor Liberation and Blessing Ceremony we were able to create Absolute Good Spirits, ancestors with God’s lineage.
Furthermore, the evil spirits that were in our body have been liberated becoming Absolute Good Spirits and now helping to remove fallen nature from members. Those evil spirits that are in our body try to make us live a wrongful life through controlling, however, through the Holy Song Session we are able to remove the evil spirits.
When the Absolute Good Spirits help us, our lifestyle will change dramatically. Not only will the spiritual background change but our mindset will change. Our heart will change.
Until now, due to the tangled connection with ancestors there were times where we had many quarrels between the husband and wife. Most of the blessed families were matched with ancestors who had big problems with each other.
Why did True Parents bless us with people whose ancestors would have difficulties with our own is because he gave us a chance to liberate this grudge through the descendants, while on earth.
True Parents blessed us, Husband and wives must unite as one and live their life loving one another. It didn’t matter how much our ancestors hated each other, he gave a chance for us to liberate it on earth through us.
However, since we were unable to live according to the principle, like our ancestors, we as couples fought each other. That is the problem we face today.
Now, your ancestors are being liberated and created into Absolute Good Ancestors. These Absolute Good Ancestors are helping so that the couple on earth can love each other and live their life.
We entered an era where if we had the thought, I must love my spouse, it would be possible for us to live a happy and good life.
From now on, couples are able to live happily right? You missed each other because you were apart from one another for 21 days. You might have hated your spouse while you lived with each other but when you live away from them, haven’t you been thinking about your spouse?
Even if you lived for hundred years, there is a limit to live with your spouse on earth, but you will live together forever with your spouse in the spirit world. However, couples who fought and hated each other and lived their life on earth would live similarly in the spirit world.
Therefore, to live happily in the spirit world, you should have mutual understanding, the husband love the wife and wife must return beauty and love her husband. Therefore, each of you should live a life where you could think, she is the only person for my wife and He is the only person to be my husband.
True Parents matched us and blessed us with a person, a person who will match when lived according to the principle. That is why from now on, both of you must have a lifestyle of mutual understanding and start loving each other.
The husband should become a father-like husband for the wife. You must be a good son to your wife. Wives that have two sons will often say that, I have three sons at home. This is because; the husband is like a son.
The husband should become an affectionate father to his wife, and at times become a husband who is like an older and younger brother to his wife. You cannot emphasize one's power saying that, I am a man and I am the husband.
The wife is the same. When the wife becomes a wife of a mother, older and younger sister to her husband, can that family have a good give and take action.
You must change because you received the Registration Blessing. The husband should have a heart of wanting to give much love to his wife, and the wife should have the heart of I must return beauty to him.
Wives who received the Registration Blessing must from now on take care of themselves and when your husband returns from work, you should do makeup, take care of you hair and must have thoughts, I must become a wife that my husband would like.
Also you must change your internal heart so that you can be a wife of a mother, older sister, friend and younger sister to your husband. You must become the resting place for your husband after he worked outside.
The husbands are the same as well. You must serve your wives who are taking care of the children at home.
If someone told the husband to prepare food, do laundry and raise a child for a month, that husband would runaway. That is why, after your day’s work and you return home, you should say, well done to your wife and at the same time give love like a father, older brother, a friend and a younger brother to your wife.
Raise your hands if you had gone to a café with your spouse after receiving the blessing? You should walk in parks, drink coffee at cafés and have conversations and take care of each other's wrongful content through love. Do you understand? If you don’t do so, then love would not emerge and be prevented from being established.
That is why you should create such family from now on. You must build a family where Satan cannot touch, a family that won’t fall even in an evil environment, and a beautiful family that can serve Heavenly Father and True Parents.
When your child was a toddler, they listened to you didn’t they? They listen carefully to you when they just started walking. However, the parent child relationship will differ as your child makes it through junior high school, high school and college. It will differ even more when they get married.
Looking at your own baby parents think, since my child is a 2nd Gen. it will listen to me even if it went to high school and college and have a proper life of faith. However, they don’t generally grow to be like this on their own. Only when they were raised centering on faith will they continue to live a life centering on faith as they get older and go to junior high school, high school and college.
Also, only when a child had respected the parents since they were small can they respect their parents when they grow older.
To make your child respect you, you cannot just express love. You must have proper sets of rules within the family and as you give good education can they grow properly, receive the blessing and have a family and live with a good mindset.
You must give proper educations; personality education, family education and faith education. It helps your child to establish a perfect family after receiving the blessing and when it starts a family of its own.
You should have such plans and start it by attending the Chung Pyung 40-day Workshops as a pregnant sister. Therefore, through raising your child in your womb, nursing your baby, and through nurturing, you must teach love, the roots of a human being.
Also, since the time when they just started walking, through their school life and until they become an adult, you must live a life where they can pace themselves with you. Such lifestyle is the Family Culture that True Parents has been talking about. Do you understand? (Yes!)
Young mothers must know this. It is wrong to think, since my child is a 2nd (3rd) generation it will naturally resemble God and True Parents. You must give proper education.
Through our lifestyle we must teach our 2nd and 3rd Gen., what is good and what is bad. Also teaching them to be neat and to be clean or else they will fail to become a proper person. Do you agree with me? (Yes!)
Were you able to teach good manners? A mother who leaves her child dropping its food at the table is a wrong mother. A mother who watches her child and laughs when it leaves toys without tidying it up is a wrong mother. A family that always follows behind the child is a wrong family.
You must educate your child properly. For example, you must educate your child, after you study, put your books here and pencils here and throw away the trash over here, Put your clothes over here once you take it off, you must eat your food like this and eat it deliciously. You must educate them on how to meet with their parents, grandparents and siblings.
As you give such education, the parents must become the center body that center heaven in the family and thus are able to become heavenly people with perfected personalities. Do you understand? (Yes!)
It doesn’t matter how great you are, if there was even one person who has unhappy in that family then that person cannot be happy. If there was an unhappy person in a family then that family is not a happy family.
To establish a happy family, the child and parents must have One Heart, One Body and One Mindset. However, you mustn’t force this on a child and center on fallen nature.
If you achieve with love at times of anger and hatred, you are able to become a person who can establish heaven, and as a result is able to enter heaven. Do you believe this? (Yes!)
Can we go to heaven or not? We can go cant we? If you follow such life, you can enter heaven 100%.
In 1995, I said, we cannot enter Heaven. In 1998, I also said, we probably cannot enter heaven. However, as Absolute Good Spirits were starting to be created by 1999, thoughts emerged within me, we are able to enter heaven. If we completely change the way we lived, we can enter.
Entering the year 2008, thoughts came to me, we can become heavenly people! We just have to change our lifestyle a little bit more. From now on, the Absolute Good Spirits will remove evil spirits and fallen nature, thus, changing our lifestyle, therefore, we can enter heaven.
We have to move towards heaven. Do you understand? (Yes!) Recently, I asked a song writer to create a song for me. To create a song with a title, Towards Heaven.
All brothers and sister of the unification family will come to Chung Pyung and sing this song. When we sing this song out loud, a song that marches towards heaven, it will sink into our lives, helping us to become heavenly people, and we will be able to sing, dance and live a great life in heaven when we go to the spirit world. Do you understand? (Yes!)
From today, please practice confidently and say, I can become a heavenly person.
To think that you can change to become a heavenly person, you must first start with changing your expressions. You must always be smiling.
Isn’t that true? You must stand in front of the mirror and practice a big smile looking confident. From now on, all of you must look at the mirror, even when you are alone, and walk past smiling.
At the closing ceremony for the 40-day Workshop, I give few different awards to members, but I am thinking of giving another award, The Most Smiling Person award. Thus, 40-day Workshop members will be smiling even more.
If the person you were talking got suddenly angry but if you showed your smile, that person will eventually forget of being angry. On the other hand, if you had many things in your mind, you would be irritated by the smallest thing.
You don’t have much left of your 40-day Workshop. Please do your best in liberating and removing evil spirits as well as fallen nature from your body and your lineage through the Holy Song Sessions. And when you return to your families, create families where others around you can say, that is a true family. A really great family.